My sister and adult children are going to visit mother today.
She thought she could just take her out to lunch...
I discouraged her from doing that, I just don't know how she is yet.
They could sit out in the court yard I think.
I am afraid of "upsetting the applecart".
What the heck is wrong with me, I seem to be overly concerned about
them seeing her expecting her to be like she was a couple months ago.
When I visit, I observe her from afar and organize her room then
spend a small bit of quiet time with her prior to an activity.
It is a small wing at the back of a larger facility -
The four of us are going to be quite a parade.
Geez, I just gotta let it go-
I get all concerned about how my sister or kids will be upset,
that the other residents will be sad they dont have visitors,
also I have a big tendency to feel I have to be "The Leader" .
Just let it GO.
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