Every time I think about one day moving my mother to a
memory care place
I am struck with huge fear.
She will not be able to bring much of anything with her.
I read that just a dresser, a few clothes, and a couple other items.
She will be so confused and lost!
I know she will be happy with activity and walking.
She doesn't even know where she is Now.
But it still frightens me.
My father would call me angrily threatening to leave.
 To walk out and sleep on a bench.
Every day he called for years with complaints.
Mother will do this too..... (ugh)
and then...
mother will not be able to do this.
She will not be able to express anything.