Father called

The other day.
He asked how I was doing and if I could visit since he doesn't know
what happened to his car or he would drive over (ha)
Anyways, he asked how mother was doing, when I told him
about her calling in the late night, me being exhausted etc,
 he apologized.
He said something like if it werent for his actions in the past
I wouldnt be burdened with her.

I wonder if this is why he thinks I dont visit him...
I do not hold his leaving her against him, never did.
When he left her he cut off contact with me also-
I was devastated and worried about him-
I dont remember how, but I found him.
When i asked him back then why he cut off contact,
he said he assumed I would be angry with him and not want
any contact.

Strange, it never occurred to me to lay blame anywhere.
They both were in need of help.

......... still are