Still Perturbed

I brought mother to her Senior Assessment a while ago and the doctor's comment
to me still pisses me off.
I asked him to write to the memory care place that i put mother on the list
a couple years ago.
He replied " Are you sure you want to do that? What will you do with yourself? "
I said " I have a life waiting for me "
What the hell ?????
 i have been caring for this woman since the eighties !
Yes, I do not know who I am without this,
but I sure as hell want to find out !
My father being in a home and not having to worry about
him is the best thing that happened to me.
Another thing that is irritating me is they gave her a new test.
The old test she got a zero.
This test she got a thirteen.  i was listening outside the door
and could hear the lady coaching mothers answers
" shoe, pen " etc.
The whole thing was / is aggravating me.